Real advice from someone in the middle of figuring it out

Practical pain-relief advice from someone still figuring it out himself.

I am Tom Pham. Twelve years in hospitality, currently a hotel supervisor in Toronto, and in the middle of fixing my own desk setup. This site is where I write down what I am learning as I try to fix it for myself. Some of it is working. Some of it is not. I will tell you which is which.

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Twelve years in hospitality
Honest about what I have and have not tested
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Written by one person — me

My story — twelve years in hospitality. My body paid the price.

“I started in hospitality as a teenager. By the time I was in my mid-twenties I had been working day shifts and overnight shifts for years, always on my feet, and my body was hurting in places that did not seem to go away.”

I tried everything. Regular massages helped temporarily. Chiropractor visits gave some relief. Acupuncture was soothing. But the pain kept coming back — because I was treating the symptoms, not the cause.

When I started spending more time at a desk as a supervisor, I noticed the same pattern. The wrong setup was putting my body under constant strain every single day. That is when I started researching ergonomics — and slowly trying to fix it for myself.

I wrote about both journeys in my books — moving from Vietnam to Canada at fifteen in Pursuit of Success in a Foreign Land, and building a different kind of life on the side of a hospitality job in Alive After Hours.

This site documents what I am learning, in real time, as I work through my own desk pain. Honest about what I have tested and what I have only researched.

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Twelve years
In hospitality, starting as a teenager, overnight shifts from age twenty
Three therapies tried
Massage, chiropractic care, acupuncture
In progress
Currently rebuilding my own desk setup, sharing what works

My top picks right now

Products I have researched thoroughly. The one I personally use is marked clearly. The others I have not bought yet, and I will tell you so.

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I use this

Lumbar support cushion

The Everlasting Comfort lumbar pillow. The one product on this site I actually use. The most affordable starting point for desk-related back pain, and the one that helped me the soonest.

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Compression socks

Bauerfeind Performance Compression Socks. Significantly reduced my leg pain on long shifts. Premium price ($139 CAD per pair) — I wish I had bought them years earlier.

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Researched · not yet bought

Best ergonomic chairs

What I would buy if I were shopping for a chair today. Real models available in Canada, honest about pricing.

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Best sit-stand desks

Alternating between sitting and standing matters more than the desk itself. Three real options at three real budgets.

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The two books I have written

If anything on this site resonates with you, you might find more in these.

Book 1 · Memoir

Pursuit of Success in a Foreign Land

★★★★★ 5.0 — 24 reviews

Arriving in Canada from Vietnam at fifteen years old with my twin brother Jerry, unable to speak English. Failing the IELTS exam three times. The slow years of figuring out how to build a life here.

Book 2 · Hospitality

Alive After Hours

A Hospitality Worker’s Honest Guide to Building Income, Hobbies, and Freedom on the Side of a Full-Time Job

You shower. You get dressed. You head out the door — but your heart is not in it. The honest account of working a full-time job while quietly building something on the side.