Practical pain-relief advice from someone still figuring it out himself.
I am Tom Pham. Twelve years in hospitality, currently a hotel supervisor in Toronto, and in the middle of fixing my own desk setup. This site is where I write down what I am learning as I try to fix it for myself. Some of it is working. Some of it is not. I will tell you which is which.
See my top picks Read my storyMy story — twelve years in hospitality. My body paid the price.
“I started in hospitality as a teenager. By the time I was in my mid-twenties I had been working day shifts and overnight shifts for years, always on my feet, and my body was hurting in places that did not seem to go away.”
I tried everything. Regular massages helped temporarily. Chiropractor visits gave some relief. Acupuncture was soothing. But the pain kept coming back — because I was treating the symptoms, not the cause.
When I started spending more time at a desk as a supervisor, I noticed the same pattern. The wrong setup was putting my body under constant strain every single day. That is when I started researching ergonomics — and slowly trying to fix it for myself.
I wrote about both journeys in my books — moving from Vietnam to Canada at fifteen in Pursuit of Success in a Foreign Land, and building a different kind of life on the side of a hospitality job in Alive After Hours.
This site documents what I am learning, in real time, as I work through my own desk pain. Honest about what I have tested and what I have only researched.
Read my full storyWhat is causing your pain?
Find the guide for your specific problem
Lower back pain
Lumbar support, posture fixes, what actually helped me
Leg pain & standing fatigue
Sit-stand desks, anti-fatigue mats, alternating positions
Wrist & forearm pain
Vertical mice, trackballs, what the research points to
Chronic chair pain
Best ergonomic chairs in Canada, what I would buy today
My top picks right now
Products I have researched thoroughly. The one I personally use is marked clearly. The others I have not bought yet, and I will tell you so.
Lumbar support cushion
The Everlasting Comfort lumbar pillow. The one product on this site I actually use. The most affordable starting point for desk-related back pain, and the one that helped me the soonest.
Buy on Amazon CA Read why I use this →Compression socks
Bauerfeind Performance Compression Socks. Significantly reduced my leg pain on long shifts. Premium price ($139 CAD per pair) — I wish I had bought them years earlier.
Buy on Amazon CA Read why I use this →Best ergonomic chairs
What I would buy if I were shopping for a chair today. Real models available in Canada, honest about pricing.
See recommendationsBest sit-stand desks
Alternating between sitting and standing matters more than the desk itself. Three real options at three real budgets.
See recommendationsFrom the blog
Practical guides written from honest research — and from the body I have spent twelve years using hard.
Why your back hurts after sitting all day — and exactly how to fix it
Five fixes that actually work, including the lumbar cushion I use myself.
Best ergonomic chairs for back pain in Canada (2026)
What I would buy if I were shopping for a chair today — and why the Aeron is not on the list.
Best sit-stand desks for back pain in Canada (2026)
The standing desk does not fix your back. The habit of switching positions does.
An occasional honest note in your inbox
Beyond the buying guides, I send a short email maybe once or twice a month. Honest notes about money, books, hospitality life, and trying to take care of a body that has spent twelve years on hard floors. Nothing pushy. Unsubscribe any time.
The two books I have written
If anything on this site resonates with you, you might find more in these.
Pursuit of Success in a Foreign Land
Arriving in Canada from Vietnam at fifteen years old with my twin brother Jerry, unable to speak English. Failing the IELTS exam three times. The slow years of figuring out how to build a life here.
Alive After Hours
A Hospitality Worker’s Honest Guide to Building Income, Hobbies, and Freedom on the Side of a Full-Time JobYou shower. You get dressed. You head out the door — but your heart is not in it. The honest account of working a full-time job while quietly building something on the side.
